Katie's Notes

An academic blog by a linguist specialising in qualitative healthcare research & medical humanities

Week 41: My 38th Birthday

I met some colleagues around my desk for the first time since I moved into the office in April. Talking with them and sharing lunch or coffee reminded me how healthy such interactions are. We tend to work alone, and our way of life can easily become isolating, so these small moments of connection felt meaningful.

In the shared office, a neighbour spoke to me and we introduced ourselves. It was the first time I had seen him, so I asked whether he was in his first year. He said that he had just submitted his doctoral thesis. He looked completely relaxed and refreshed. I felt genuinely happy for him and hopeful that one day I might reach that same point of calm and accomplishment.

I organised all the feedback I received during the probation review, summarised what I should do for the rest of the year, and sent it to my supervisors. It is important to share summaries of meetings and my next actions with them.

On Saturday, Luca bought a lot of flowers at a market, and we spent the morning arranging them and having pain au chocolat and tea. I had a relaxing afternoon (I spoke with my parents and replied to friends’ messages), and we went to our favourite Italian restaurant for dinner. It was a really nice birthday, filled with warmth, love and gratitude.

 

My goals for Week 42

  • finish analysing the pilot data
  • submit the analysis and documents to my supervisors